FetLife is the world’s largest and most popular social network for the BDSM community, Kink community, and Fetish community.

FetLife is a social networking website that serves people interested in BDSM, fetishism, and kink. It distinguishes itself from competitors by emphasizing itself as a social network rather than a dating site.

I know fetlife isn’t a dating app but rather like a social media platform for the BDSM community. But my question is, is it actually any good at connecting with people. I’ve debated creating an account but I …

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